Frequently asked questions

A dice game to explore sensuality, connection and body discovery, as a couple or in a group. Each turn, six virtual dice build a simple mission: an action, a body zone, a duration and an intensity, sometimes with a surprise twist.

From 2 to 8. With two players, the game switches to couples mode: twists that need an observer are replaced with others designed for two.

The giver shakes the iPhone or taps Roll. Each die can be rerolled once. The mission appears and the narrator reads it. The person receiving accepts, adjusts or declines. If they accept, the timer starts, then roles rotate.

They show the mission’s intensity, from 1 to 4 based on the d4: very gentle, gentle and exploratory, present and assured, sustained but comfortable. Some d20 twists can raise it to 5, “intense and passionate”, or lower it.

You decide: a free session you end whenever you like, or a set number of turns per player. Each turn’s duration depends on the d6 and the Long, Medium or Short setting.

No. A blindfold can be handy for some twists, but a scarf works just as well. And one twist sometimes bans accessories altogether.

Nothing more: the turn moves to the next player. No one has to explain.

It makes the mission softer, shorter or moves it to another zone, before you begin. It’s a way to say “yes, but differently”.

Yes. The Pause button stops the timer at any moment, on iPhone or Apple Watch. You can then resume or move to the next turn. And you can end the session whenever you want.

Before starting, in “Your limits”, untick the actions (d10) and body zones (d12) you don’t want. The dice will never land on them. Talk about it together first: that’s already part of the game.

No. Consent is given every turn and can be withdrawn at any time, even after accepting. A sign, a word or the Pause button is enough.

Yes, from the setup screen, without restarting the session.

In the session preferences, choose a narrator and listen to a sample. For more natural voices, add them in iPhone Settings: Accessibility > Read & Speak > Voices.

Yes. The whole mission is written on screen, and every tip can be listened to or not. Text size is adjustable.

French, English and Spanish. You can switch languages anytime, even during a session, and the Apple Watch follows.

It shows the mission, lets you accept or decline, displays the dice and their legend, the timer and Pause. The logo beats to your heart.

Only to animate the logo to your heartbeat during the session. The reading stays on the watch and is never saved, stored or transmitted. You can say no: the game works exactly the same.

Make sure your iPhone and watch are paired and nearby, and the app is open on both, then relaunch the watch app. If needed, restart the watch.

No. No account, no ads, no trackers. Names and settings stay on your device and are cleared at the end of the session.

No. They’re meant to be said out loud. Nothing is written or saved.

iPhone and iPad running iOS or iPadOS 17.6 or later, and Apple Watch paired with an iPhone.

An Android version is in closed beta on Google Play. Write to us to join.

18 and over. Désire-moi is designed for consenting adults.